The truth behind why Prince Philip and Queen Elizabeth II did not live together continuously or share a bedroom for much of their marriage has been explained by royal insiders and family statements.
Contrary to speculation, the decision was not due to marital discord but rather rooted in longstanding upper-class and royal traditions.
Prince Philip retired from active royal duties in 2017 and subsequently chose to spend much of his retirement living apart, primarily at Wood Farm on the Sandringham Estate, while the Queen remained at Buckingham Palace or Windsor Castle fulfilling official duties. This arrangement allowed both to live comfortably according to their separate routines and responsibilities.
Another key reason for their separate sleeping arrangements stems from a traditional practice among the British upper class, where married couples often maintained separate bedrooms. This tradition was intended to ensure restful sleep, free from disturbances like snoring or movements, and provided a sense of personal space despite marital closeness. Lady Pamela Hicks, a relative, confirmed this as a common practice among the aristocracy.
The Queen and Prince Philip’s bedrooms were part of a large adjoining suite where they had separate rooms but remained close, balancing privacy with intimacy. This setup reflected their busy lives, differing schedules, and personal preferences rather than any strain in their marriage.